Ouch!

Perhaps you should ask him to give the card to Chain-Q so he can ship it to you, or at least have Chain-Q verify that the card exists!

I have a bad feeling about this taking so long. I have had trouble in the past getting things shipped when I could not physically get out of bed to go to the Post Office because I could not stand up, or drive a car and I am too proud to ask for help, so I know how bad someone can feel when they can't fulfill their obligations, but at least he could stay in contact and let you know what is going on and why your package with the card in it is delayed and where it is right now.